Naked
for All
By
Kensunwalker
Clothing is for everyone. It doesn’t matter who you are, what you look
like, what you believe, or what you do, clothes are accepted. Oh, you may have to wear a particular uniform
or dress a certain way. Your business
may demand a certain style. Your religion
may require that you to conform to that community’s dress code. The clothes that are appropriate for shopping
in the city will be different in the country, and very different at the
beach. But other proclivities don’t seem
to matter – nun, priest, doctor, teacher, contractor, sales rep, telephone
operator, customer service person, fast food worker, clerk, straight, gay,
video pornographer, swinger, nudist, as long as you’re clothed, you are accepted;
clothes make the “accepted” man or woman.
Acceptance
What can be done to make “nudity” universally
accepted?
Naked must become just as acceptable as clothed. It can’t matter whether the person is
conservative or liberal, man or woman, religious or not, focused on sex or less
sexually oriented, gay or straight, a nacation only nudist, a 24/7 nudist or an
occasional nude, the focus must be on making naked as accepted as being clothed,
however and wherever it occurs.
Some textiles and naturists may disagree with a
particular type/motivation of nudity. If
so, they needn’t be involved. Everybody
has their own bucket of acceptable and unacceptable behaviors that no one has
the right to take that bucket away. Each
person’s approach is personal – it’s theirs!
Naked people must “never” denigrate those who enjoy nudity of “any”
type.
Any approach that inspires nakedness must be
encouraged! Roni Fine says this well:
No
Fear
To be accepted, naked people must not cower in fear; rather,
they must act with strength. They must
be proud of their nakedness. Here are a
few ways this pride can be demonstrated so acceptance results:
Home naturism can surely be accepted. It makes zero sense to wear clothes at home
if you’re a naked person – so don’t do it.
Establish a naked household and let everyone know that they may see a
naked person when they visit. (A sign is
an easy way to accomplish this.) Raise
your children naked. Tell your
family. Visit your neighbors and let
them know you are a naked person. It
might be okay to have a bathrobe for yourself near the front door, but it’s
even better to have a robe for a visiting guest so they may undress, yet still feel
comfortable. Watch TV nude. Hold naked social parties with friends. Do all of your housework nude. Window coverings are used to avoid being
seen, but shut out natural light, so it’s better to leave them open (except
maybe at night, but if nakedness was accepted even this concern would disappear). Put naturist magazines on side-tables, and be
sure to include an album with photos of you and your family participating in
naked activities. Decorate your home
with nude-photos, artwork, and statues.
Be a proud home naturist!
Swimming naked can be easily accepted. This will only occur if water people get
nude! Going to the beach? Be polite – “ask” if those nearby would be
offended. Then with acceptance, get
naked to sunbathe and swim! So what if
no one else participates. At a
pool? Be polite – “ask” if others would
be offended. And with acceptance, swim
nude! Again, so what if no one else
participates. Going to a hot
spring? Be the first to establish a
naked setting! Go Skinny-dipping more
often – it feels fabulous and is already accepted by most people. And “never” wear clothing in your own spa or
pool, even when textiles visit. Be a
naked example. Water and nudity simply
go together, and with familiarity comes acceptance.
Gardening and yard maintenance should be
accepted. You must take
a stand for your rights and get nude. Your property is yours - your place, your
rules! No one has a natural right to
object to you being naked on your own property, especially if it happens in
your “back” yard. Those who are offended
can simply look away. Nakedness need not
be about exhibitionism or become a mental health concern. Local laws may not agree; if so, those laws
are wrong, so it is unlikely you will be prosecuted for nakedness on property
you own, especially if you have previously announced that you are a naked
person. Few activities are as enjoyable
and healthy as puttering in the garden or cutting the lawn nude. Even taking out the garbage becomes pleasant
when nakedness is accepted.
Outdoor camping/hiking naked will be
accepted. This will
only occur if people get outdoors and camp or hike nude! While it’s probably a good idea for naked
people to camp and hike in more isolated areas to avoid criticism, few people
get outdoors now anyway, and most who do are not concerned about nudity,
especially if it is done by a group.
Still, if freecampers/freehikers are seen by a textile critic, they
should never hide or seem embarrassed; rather, simply say “Hi”, wish the person
a “Great Day”, and perhaps stop to talk.
This is the only way those who also enjoy being outdoors (and mostly
don’t care about natural nudity) will learn to be accepting.
Participate in naked sports and other
healthy activities so they are accepted. Everything is better if done nude, and
everything includes sports. Why not
bike, or run, or bowl, or play tennis or horseshoes without clothes? Why not fish or hunt nude? How about nude exercising or weight lifting
or yoga? Some places have naked soccer
or rugby teams. And card/board games are
natural nude activities. So are nude
drum circles, nude karaoke, and naked parties.
Join a team or group that participates in nude sports/activities, and
tell/invite others so naked becomes acceptable.
Carnuding will even be accepted! Driving or riding naked in a car is perhaps
the most controversial of all the activities that have been presented so far,
because some people see this as too exhibitionistic. Yet it is certainly consistent with being accepted
as a naked person. Clothes can be very
restricting and uncomfortable, especially when traveling longer distances. You drive more carefully when clothes-free
because you want to avoid flashing others, so it can be safer. Besides, few if anyone on the road will
notice anyway. And a Skinny Road Trip
makes for an awesome naturist event - traveling nude with others to see the
sights. Some police may not agree, but Carnuding
and Skinny Road Trips can certainly contribute to normalizing nakedness in
everyday life.
Home
Sweet ‘Naked’ Home
We must “live” naked to make it as acceptable as
clothed. It’s not where we live, but how
we live – naked. You can increase naked
acceptance “anywhere” by simply living a naked life, and letting others know.
Maybe you live in an apartment. You can easily post a sign by your front door
indicating yours is a naked place. You
can be friendly with neighbors and answer any questions. You can do housework naked. You can decorate your place in a naturist
fashion. You can plant a small garden
and enjoy sitting on your patio naked.
You can invite naked friends over for socializing (and invite
neighbors). You can sleep with your spouse
naked. And you can still enjoy the outdoors
naked while camping and hiking. Just let
everyone know about your lifestyle, so nakedness becomes accepted. You can live naked anywhere; it’s simply your
choice!
Get innovative if you live a naked life in the city. The city has many advantages - shopping, restaurants,
entertainment, and particularly diversity.
You may never even get to know your neighbors, so in large cities naturism
is often more easily accepted; join or create a naked community. You might be able to create a roof-top oasis,
with a hot tub, gardens, BBQ, etc. Try
to acquire two multi-story houses, fence in the front and back area between,
and create a nude paradise; then use one house for your home and the other for
naked-accepting renters, or even open a small spa. Again, just let everyone know about your lifestyle,
so nakedness becomes accepted. You can
live naked anywhere; it’s simply your choice!
You might live in a “typical” neighborhood/home – Of
course, all the activities apartment dwellers do are available to you, with a
little more freedom because you own the property. Still, it’s important to place a sign near
your front door (to not offend “unsuspecting” visitors). And you’ll want to inform the neighbors so
they know what you are about, become accustomed to your lifestyle, and accept
nakedness. Fences and tall vegetation will
also increase privacy and acceptance. Just
let everyone know about your lifestyle, so nakedness becomes accepted. You can live naked anywhere; it’s simply your
choice!
Maybe you’re lucky enough to live in a house distant
from others. This usually means away
from the city. Naked outdoor life becomes
easier. Distance means you can be naked with
nearly total acceptance. Yard work,
gardening, sunning, enjoying a sunset – everything naked can be accepted. You might even have room to build a naked meditation
trail. Still, post a naked sign and tell
your closest neighbors. Just let
everyone know about your lifestyle, so nakedness becomes accepted. You can live naked anywhere; it’s simply your
choice!
And until nakedness is fully accepted, you might choose
to live at a clothing optional resort. Your
naked lifestyle will be completely accepted.
And as an added benefit, this is normally less expensive than living in
the textile world. Just let everyone
know about your lifestyle, so nakedness becomes accepted. You can live naked anywhere; it’s simply your
choice!
Money,
Money, Money
But what about the money needed for the naturist
approaches above. Money seems to always
be a limiting factor. Here are three
approaches for earning the money needed to live as a naturist:
You can simply do what you do now to earn a
living. You may not be able to work
nude; your business probably has some dress code. However, you may be able to wear a naturist
t-shirt at work. And required dress at
work doesn’t stop you from stripping down after work – carnuding, and at home. Driving home naked will increase your nude
time. Don’t think of nudity as weird
(even if others over-react.) Sharing in
this way can make nudity more acceptable for those who know, so tell them.
Look for a job that can be done at home. Working from home is becoming more and more
common. Do it nude! Working clothes-free can add motivation to a
job, so you can be a better employee. In
many situations, the “computer” makes naked work possible. But, don’t hide your reason for working from
home; when possible, tell your boss and other workers that you choose to work
from home so you can be comfortably “naked”, more motivated, and hence, a
better employee. That’s really the only
way to make working naked at home as acceptable as working in clothes. Hiding your nakedness doesn’t achieve
acceptance.
Some naked people may want to make most of their
income through a naturist-related business.
This is especially important for naked retired folk who need a little
extra income. If this is your desire,
you will definitely need to first “come out of the closet”; everyone must know
you are a nudist. Otherwise, how can you
market your business? Here are a few
naturist money making ideas: Conduct nude boating/river-running events (the
nude cruise industry is booming), conduct nude tours/photo events/freehikes, open
your home as a nude B&B, conduct nude workshops, have facilities for naked
weddings and work closely with wedding planners, create marketing approaches
for resorts and other naturist-related businesses, start your own naked 5k or
similar event, create and sell naturist-related clothing, open a naked statue
(or other things) store. And remember,
the more nakedness is accepted, the more customers you will have, and the more money
you can make.
Is money needed anyway? Maybe, being satisfied with the naked times
you have during or after work is enough for you. You needn’t travel to distant places or fancy
resorts if you really enjoy being a home naturist - cleaning and fixing your
house naked, puttering in your garden naked, soaking naked in your hot tub, freehiking
in the near-by forest, and socializing with your naked friends. You might even start a local non-landed
naturist club. Be sure to let others
know about your naked approach to a satisfying life, so it is accepted.
Summary
According to statistics, one in four of your neighbors
already secretly enjoys naked living.
You can be the catalyst needed to open these folk up, and can even make naked
living acceptable for others.
So how
can you help naked become just as acceptable as being clothed? Just get naked! And let others know. You needn’t do everything listed above, but
definitely do something to make nudity as acceptable as being clothed. Your example will surely contribute to the
naked movement; even if only to your friends and family, even if only to
yourself.
And don’t be concerned if another naked person is
religious, or gay, or famous, or social, or a swinger. Realize that clothed people are diverse in
those ways as well. Recognize that nothing
matters, as long as they love nudity.
You may not associate with a particular approach or belief, but you
“must” be supportive and get naked yourself in order to make nakedness as
acceptable as being clothed.